
The older I get the more of a cynic I am becoming in various aspects of life. I often listen to people talking about things going on in there lives, and whether I am meant to give advice or not sometimes I just listen, and hold back what I am really thinking. Here's an example:
Someone tells me that they were in a relationship for 3 years, and it recently ended and from their perspective it is the end of the world. What I'm thinking as this person is talking, is you don't realize how big of a favor you were just granted. What actually comes out of my mouth however is something more like, aww man I'm sorry to hear that.
The reason is I bring this up is because more and more I don't believe in coincidences. When one door shuts another door always opens and the door that is opened is generally the one you were meant to walk through.
Sometimes you'll met a person who serves a single purpose in your life, and once that purpose is served they move on. It doesn't always seem as clear as I've just written it, sometimes you'll really have to search to find out what purpose that person just served.